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Ok. To clear things up I don’t think that he’s cheating on me now, but I was curious to see if he tried to get with any other girls when we first started dating. Apparently, I was right to be suspicious. He told a girl that he still had feelings for her (after telling everyone they never really dated) and he tried to talk to another girl once we were official. These are only the things that I found on his sent messages on Facebook. I almost feel bad about looking in his messages, but then again I feel like my actions were validated by what I found, so I just wanted to know others’ opinions.

My husband has extreme jealousy that I shared my virginity with my ex-boyfriend — I would usually call him by name not by label. We are only ex’s b/c I got married and I moved (We were best friends!). Since marriage, I have been too afraid to keep up communication with my ex. However, he just joined an online community that I am also involved with (facebook) and is requesting friendship. I always wish we could still talk without my husband’s rage (he has an anger problem). I am not sure what to do b/c I could not tell my husband b/c of his unfounded anger. My husband and I are 20 and my ex best friend is a senior in high school.
He and I would not try to re-establish any resemblance of a romantic relationship.. blah blah. I just want my best friend back. I haved missed him a lot! What should I do?

I started visiting a popular blog site. I was asked to guest blog. I really want to write… my hearts desire!! The site deals with urban issues and sex topics (abortion, sexual fantasies, tips and advice). I began writing without telling my husband. I made it clear to everyone that I was married and their was never any sexual advances made towards me or by me. My husband found out and he refuses to compromise with me. I invited him to participate more and he was more than welcome to start seeing everything I wrote or commented on. (Mind you-he was into internet porn @ one point in our marriage) He told me that I have to stay off the internet COMPLETELY! He checks my e-mails and checks my twitter account. I finally deleted it. Our marriage is far from perfect in fact I am pretty miserable. Is it fair of him to take away the internet completely. It has been a hellish relationship. He was/is an alcoholic. He left me for 2 months to live with another woman. He abuses me mentally, emotionally, and has sexually and physically abused me at points in our relationship. We have been together for 15 years. I am considering leaving him in order to have my freedom. What would you do?

ironic under the circumstances.

~~~she could see in the open square before her house the tops of trees that were all aquiver with the new spring life.the delicious breath of rain was in the air.in the street below a peddler was crying his wares. the notes of a distant song which someone was singing reached her fanintly,and countless sparrows were twittering in the eaves.

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